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Importance of Healthy Breakfast for Children Wednesday, June 9th, 2010

breakfast 300x201 Importance of Healthy Breakfast for ChildrenParents, listen up: a good breakfast is a prerequisite to learning. Nutritious meals in the morning are essential for children to perform well in school and have active social lives as they grow up. Breakfast provides at least a quarter of a child’s energy for the day. Thus, if breakfast were missed, the child will be less alert and his learning potential substantially diminished.

When an inadequately nourished kid goes to school, he is likely to be more irritable and anxious, less inquisitive, tires quicker, less physically active, and not very sociable. Children who have empty, rumbling stomachs certainly will find it difficult to concentrate on their lessons.

On top of ensuring a full stomach, it is important to give children the right kind of foods at breakfast, since not all foods are created equal.

A healthy meal for children at the start of the day will positively impact learning. Studies have shown that students who have a nutritious breakfast have higher test scores and have generally better  performance than their counterparts who didn’t eat breakfast.

A healthy breakfast contains complex carbohydrates in the form of grains such as oatmeal, brown rice, cereals, proteins from meats, beans and nuts; fiber and vitamins from fruits and vegetables; and calcium and other minerals from milk, cheese and yogurt.

Fiber from complex carbohydrates creates the feeling of fullness, thereby ensuring mental alertness, while the glucose that you get from this food group is used by the brain as fuel during mental activity.

Researchers on a study of oatmeal, which is a prime example of food with  high complex carbohydrates, compared the effects of eating oatmeal or cereal at breakfast or having no breakfast at all, on the cognitive performance of 30 middle-income students. Over a three-week time frame, the students were asked to take tests minutes after eating their assigned breakfast. Those who didn’t have breakfast were also asked to take the mental examination.

The first study found out that among children ages six to eight, spatial memory skills (which are essential for subjects like math and geography) increased by almost 50% after eating oatmeal for breakfast as compared to having no breakfast at all. Forty-six percent of the children also improved their skills after eating oatmeal compared to when they ate cereals.

The second study found out that among children ages nine to 11 years old, 68 percent performed better when they ate oatmeal compared to those who didn’t have any breakfast.

The study cited the whole grain, high fiber, and high protein content of oatmeal as significantly affecting spatial memory performance. The study revealed that oatmeal, which is slow and continued release of glucose into the bloodstream and enhances cognitive performance.

Other emerging research confirms that oatmeal, or complex carbohydrates -in general, are best for the brain because they contain fiber that resists digestion, slowing its breakdown and the subsequent release of sugars into the bloodstream. This slow and even absorption of sugar is highly beneficial to the brain, as it performs better on a minimal yet constant supply of sugar.

So if you’re a parent planning a healthy breakfast menu for your children, don’t fail to include oatmeal into the diet. Oats, in almost all forms—rolled, old-fashioned, quick cooking, and even instant, is readily available for that hearty bowl of oatmeal or as ingredient to great-tasting and nutrition-packed recipes.


Good Parenting Monday, June 7th, 2010

good parenting 2 300x289 Good ParentingLet’s face it, parenting can be a chore but a rewarding chore. But not everyone is prepared to be a parent. Well usually no one is prepared to be a parent. Handling another life and raising them takes guts, brains, patience, and a lot of knowledge. If you’re reading this you obviously want the latter. Below are just a few basic good parenting methods you should begin using. They are proven to work.

Teach Them Independence

From a young age you should be teaching your children how to be independent. They should learn about the world and be exposed to its activities. Sheltering your child too much will leave him vulnerable and helpless in the future. While I will say you don’t have to let them get too much exposure you should moderate what they learn, watch, read, and use. There is a reason games are rated. There is a reason T.V. shows are rated. Pay attention to them!

Teach Them Often

Children always have questions, but they don’t always voice them. Teach them without asking. Explain things and show them what is what and which is which. Tell them differences and comparisons. You should let your child learn on their own but offer assistance if you see they might need it. However remember to always ask first. Your child might get things very quickly and not need your help at that time.

Show Them Love

Always show your children that you love them. Children from an early age to their teens need to be shown love. Hug them, kiss them, and take them with you on trips. Talk about life, things, and news. Voice opinions and even have a few debates. Connect with your child to make an everlasting impression of love. Love is what makes the world go round and love is what will ensure your child a happy and successful life.

Look The Other Way

Sometimes your child will say or do things you dislike or feel is completely wrong. However your child is simply voicing or expressing himself. If you take that away from them, they will retaliate. Instead just look the other way and focus on the good qualities of your child. Compliment your child and let them know what they are doing or saying is impressive or admirable.

Respect

Respect is not always a given. If you do not respect your children and how can you expect them to respect you? Respect is a two way street. It needs to be given to be received. Don’t do something or say something to your child that you wouldn’t want your child to do or say. Remember that you are the example and they look up to you. If they feel they are just being disrespected consistently they will do the same back.

Good parenting doesn’t come fast or easy; However, you can learn it. Use what I have written and see the results. Change and modify if needed.


Dealing with Teenagers Saturday, June 5th, 2010

 Dealing with Teenagers

Firstly, whenever you try and discuss and issues or conflicts with your teenage child, you need to make sure that you do so in a positive way; this means trying your best not to lose your temper. Although this might sometimes be hard, it is always much better to ‘negotiate’ with your teenager and to compromise and find a reasonable solution for the both of you than shouting at one another for hours, and never getting close to solving any of the problems that you set out to solve.

Another thing you should do is to show them that you know how they feel and sympathise with them. If you don’t do this, and you tell them to simply ‘get their act together and stop being lazy’ for instance, then you will more than likely alienate yourself from your son/daughter and more, and once again, you will come no closer to finding out what is bothering your teenager.

Although these are just a few of the things you can do to help create a better understanding between your teenage son/daughter and yourself, there are of course many more, such as choosing a good time to talk to them. What we have mentioned in this article may seem like common sense, but although this may be the case, we still tend to forget them and let our own emotions get in the way.


Acne Scars No More Friday, June 4th, 2010

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Have you ever thought about how to get rid of your acne scars? Acne can cause lots of blemishes on the skin in such places as the face, shoulders, neck and various other places.  These scars can remain visible and can be very frustrating.  Don’t be discouraged. There is an answer to preventing acne scars.  The most important thing to remember is to avoid picking at any acne because this only spreads infection and causes scaring.  There are various different herbs, such as chamomile, lavender, bergamot, dandelion root, juniper, poke root, witch hazel, and burdock root, which  can be used to help prevent toxins from building up in the body.  You can also take vitamin supplements, such as Vitamins A, C, E and B6, to aid in healthy skin.  You should try to avoid having your face exposed to the rays from the sun since this can also cause acne scars.

There are dermal fillers such as collagen that can be injected into the acne scar to help with the development of new skin on the surface.  It will help to give your skin a healthier look.  If you have acne scars such as ice pack or deep boxcar scars then they should be treated with a different method known as the punch excision method.  This is where they use a tool similar to that of a cookie cutter with a diameter of anywhere between 1.5 m and 3.5 mm.  They will also use anesthesia to help sort out the scar tissue and it can also help to suture the ends together.  If a new scar appears where the old one was then they use the skin resurfacing method.  This is the most commonly used form of treatment to cure acne and other skin conditions.

YAG lasers and carbon dioxide are the most common treatment types when using the laser resurfacing of acne scars.  This involves using a laser to burn a precise hole in the skin that will then heal and replace the old skin with the new skin.  No one wants to have acne or enjoys looking at acne but fortunately there is a cure.  What you need to do is to take a systematic approach and ensure that all steps to prevent acne from occurring and treat the existing blemishes so it won’t leave any undesirable marks on your face.

If acne does occur then just follow the above steps and you can help to prevent new scars from forming and eliminate the old ones all at the same time.


5 Tips Every Parent Should Know Thursday, June 3rd, 2010

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Parenting is a huge step in life. As the parent of a newborn you might feel anxiety come upon you. How will you teach your child? What is good and bad? Most of the time you will teach them what you’ve been taught, but what if you’re wrong? What if your ideals are wrong? You begin to question and suddenly you have so many unanswered questions. Thats ok because that is what parenting is all about. You won’t have all the answers, but you can look for them!

Listed below are some basic parenting tips that I feel every parent should know.

Tip 1: You must remember to be patient and understand with your child. Whether they are a newborn or in their teen years they still won’t be “perfect”. They never will be! It is your job as a parent to guide and instruct, but not to force or enforce. You have to teach them and the way you teach them is by showing and doing. Try to be as patient as you can with your children. They will notice.

Tip 2: Your child will often doubt their abilities for numerous reasons. Sometimes it is other kids at schools or the media sending negative thoughts. It is your job to fill them with confidence but at the same time remaining truthful. You should embrace their goals and dreams. You want them to succeed don’t you? Keep confident in order to keep them confident!

Tip 3: Overloading never helped anyone, especially not a child. Your child will often have many activities going on in their lives but it is your job to see they can handle it all. If they’re falling behind in their school work because of sports, cut some sports. Their main job should be school. Allow them to have time for homework and studying. It is not uncommon for children to be overloaded so ensure you are the one to enforce breaks!

Tip 4: Always prioritize family time. Family time should be a sacred time. It allows you and your children to bond and discuss. This is a time for connection, never be afraid to tell your child your own dreams, goals, and aspirations. You will be surprised by your children. They look up to you for so many things.

Tip 5: Create something that your entire family does together. It can be board game night or even a movie night. Whatever it is make it a ritual. This will make a cemented family activity and could even turn into a tradition. Make the best of these moments and always remain in good spirits at this time. Even if you’re not feeling it.

Parenting isn’t easy, but who said it would be? These tips should help you get along. Use them, experiment with them, and modify if you have to. Find what works for you and stick with it!


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