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Should I be concerned if my child is a vegetarian? Tuesday, September 28th, 2010

Children can tend to be somewhat picky eaters especially at young ages and it can pose some obstacles when dining out and even at home. Typically little ones choose to not consume foods that are good for you because those are commonly the ones that don’t contain any sugars or even look satisfying to eat. Many parents find themselves struggling with their children’s eating habits and even need detailed advice when they seek the doctor’s help asking “my child is a vegetarian, what can I do?” Vegetarian diets have become extremely popular over the past decade and that is with the demand of organic products and lifestyles also gaining many fans.

When your child is a vegan it truly poses no concern to the parents as image 1 Should I be concerned if my child is a vegetarian?far as health benefits and development are concerned. The food companies have designed so many alternatives to regular foods that children can still get all the nutrients and vitamins they need by eating this way. Many vegans have healthier diets and typically do not gain excess weight due to the lack of fat and junk foods they consume. They choose raw foods more often, and typically eat more vegetables and fruits than children that are not vegetarians which is a huge plus in choosing this lifestyle.

In prior years it was difficult to find sufficient meal choices when dining out for vegans, especially for children. Recently dining establishments have been striving to accommodate such preferences offering many grilled and steamed dishes with poultry and meat substitutes. Many children that are vegetarians still consume dairy products versus the full fledged vegans who choose not to consume any product that came from an animal which would include all dairy options as well. One of the main concerns parents of vegan children have is if their child is getting enough protein in their diets and thankfully there are so many choices for substitutes that the little ones enjoy eating that it makes it less of a challenge. Parents can opt to purchase tofu and provide their children with protein alternatives such as nuts and other vegetarian turkeys, hams and burgers.

Having a child that chooses to eat this way when the rest of family does not can certainly require additional effort from the parent for grocery shopping and meal preparation. Some families elect to switch everyone’s eating habits to suit one or two vegans living in the home just to make it simpler on a daily basis. If your child is a vegan but doesn’t like the taste of the alternatives that are available it may be best if you consult with a nutritionist to formulate a list of options for the child to choose from so they still consume enough calories and foods they need for proper development. Becoming a vegan takes effort to not eat what is available at certain events and even at home sometimes, but it appears to be a life change that many are making to stay healthy and steer clear of preservatives and additional calories. If your child becomes a vegan and it poses any concerns, feel free to have your pediatrician address those for you and typically it doesn’t pose a threat to their health in any way.


At Home Summer Boredom Busters Monday, September 27th, 2010

As the summer wears on, so does boredom when a child does not have as many school friends around on a daily basis or structured play time, but with a few creative ideas it is easy to reduce at home summer boredom.

image 2 At Home Summer Boredom BustersMost of the time, it just takes a little imagination and a couple of good ideas to help stave off boredom for children of any age group, but when the days are long and hot it can sometimes be difficult for young minds to come up with ideas on their own. Simple suggestions and involved parents that encourage their children to be creative and engage in free play often comment that their children never have a bored moment.

Some of the most engaging and fun activities for children require them to create, problem solve and experiment in order to make their own fun. In this way, not only do the children have fun playing, but they stave off boredom by actively engaging and keeping their minds busy and working. Try introducing homemade bubbles and bubble wands to children, but do it in a way that requires them to discover what works best for themselves by giving them the materials, but requiring them to make the best wand they can and sudsiest bubble mix possible. Likewise, turn the backyard into a bug hunt, using a collection of jars, nets and magnifying glasses to capture and then identify everything that they find. Create paper boats, costumes from old clothing and paper planes to keep children busy.

No matter what, the best at home summer boredom busters need to be tailored to your child’s interests and you need to be involved. Kids can sense when their parents are paying attention and that can take a boring activity and turn it into something really fun that they will remember and want to do again in the future.


What to do when the police knock on your door Friday, September 24th, 2010

When you become a parent you can expect many joyful moments raising a child, but their certainly are just as many surprises guiding a child and how you handle them will determine what type of parent and disciplinarian you desire to be. When children are smaller they get in trouble for trivial situations and it is merely a part of growing up and attempting to push boundaries. As children get older they continue to push those boundaries and it is the duty of the parent to decide if they will allow the child to continue breaking rules or not. Teenagers can end up in some troublesome scenarios and even get tangled up in the law or a visit to the principal’s office, and just as a precaution every parent should know what to do when the police knock on your door.

The first thing is not to panic even though that may seem like an instant reaction that is unpreventable, you must keep your composure and be realistic about the situation. It is imperative to remain calm and listen to what the police officers have to relay to you as the parent as there will be plenty of time to react later. Depending on the complexity of what your child has engaged in to get into trouble, being angry and thinking irrationally will get you nowhere. Naturally, every parent in this situation will be upset, angry and even sad, but formulating a plan to repair the situation is the priority at this time.

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Before you consult with your child regarding the occurrence, you need to retrace their steps when the trouble began. If your child went out with friends yesterday and engaged in some form of mischief, then think about how they acted and presented themselves to you prior to leaving the house that day. If they appeared worried or not themselves then you know they anticipated the event taking place prior to leaving. That is the best case scenario for a parent to work with, this implies that your child knew what they were getting into and still went which provides you with a base to discuss the issue. Speak to them regarding better decision making skills and how important it is to surround themselves with people that don’t place them in those types of situations. Formulate a plan of consequences that is firm enough to ensure this type of activity doesn’t occur again. It’s one thing to have your child fight with their siblings or another child in school, it’s a completely different ballgame when the police are involved and they come to your home.

The route of discipline you elect to take will set the tone for how often your child will be likely to engage in such activity later down the line. It will also make a statement for any younger siblings living in the home to not mirror such behavior as it will not be tolerated. It is completely normal for all children to push limits and in many cases it is cry for attention. Spend more time with your child and try to always talk to them openly and voice their concerns regarding peer pressure and how to avoid becoming a victim of it.


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