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Often times, it seems that our children pay no attention to what we are saying. I can talk for hours on end, instructing them something they need to do. Time and time again, I will find that they did not actually complete the task which they were told. Most of these times, they will tell me they forgot, or that I never commanded for them do any such thing. These recurring situations make me furious, as I feel they never actually listen to what they are saying.

My teenagers especially have caused me this form of ailment. Each one, after being granted with a vehicle, was warned of their curfew prior to receiving their license. However, each of my kids has failed to follow this order, each returning home tardy on multiple occasions.

After dealing with this for years, I have found that, in actuality, our kids choose not to listen. With this capacity for selective hearing, they find it easy to make excuses when they infringe on our orders. With this in mind, any parent would inquire as to how they could enforce their instructions with added stability, to ensure that our children actually consume the purpose of our conversation.

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Teenagers are almost certainly the most difficult group of human beings to deal with. Within years it seem, our adorable young’s ones mutate into the most stubborn people on the face of the earth. The wavering emotions, demanding attitudes, and endless disrespect collaborate to form the new face of our children, to which we have not yet been introduced. Though the love between us never ceases, life can become challenging as our children progress through these unsound years.

As kids ourselves, most parents probably imagined having the flawless family – respectful kids, a remarkable spouse, and the appreciated status of the perfect parent. Many of these imaginations have been manifested in our mind from stereotypes, seen from common sources such as Television Shows. As a child, I specifically remember idolizing the Walton’s family, and the integrity which followed their family relations.

Fortunately, as I began fostering my own spouse and family, I was presented with a reality check of sorts. I found that, in the real world, trouble arises within the household, particularly among our/ teenage children. In reality, we as parents are disposed to take care of our children, providing them with the needs which accompany this responsibility. With this responsibility, we are dually granted with considerable stress.

With this realization I also found that it was impossible for me to be the perfect parent. Regardless of my intentions, I will always make mistakes as a parent, and so will my child. During the teenage years, I have also matured. While these years have been stressful, they provide a means for seamless transition to adulthood. With each child, I have learned to love and respect them as an individual, though they may not follow the ideals I had in mind.

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As technology advances, the prospective dangers which threaten our children become more apparent, especially in online platforms. In recent years, the amount of internet use has grown significantly, as children can often find entertainment surfing the web.

According to statistics, most of our children use the internet prolifically, for various purposes. Last year, the American Psychological Association conductive extensive surveying on this issue, questioning over one million teens on their internet habits. These statistics reveal that over 71% of teenager’s possess online profiles, and nearly all of them have subscribed to some sort of emailing service.

Additionally, it has been recorded that 64% of teenagers have, at some point, publicly posted vulnerable information about themselves on the web. By doing this, teenagers place themselves in jeopardy of befalling dangerous incidents, as a result of the information they have disclosed. In this same survey, it was found that over 16% of teenagers have been asked to perform a face-to-face meeting with an online acquaintance, though most have been smart enough to decline. This statistic, which does not include the large amount of teenagers who post pictures of themselves online, confirms the risk which we take by granting continual internet use to our teenagers.

When the internet was first introduced, it revealed a positive experience which would allow future generations a wholesome and enriching environment. However, though the internet is still a great resource, it has also opened up the door to dangerous, unsolicited perils. As parents, it is now our responsibility to emphasize the positive qualities of this resource.

While social networks and chatting facilities are a great form of entertainment, they must be used shrewdly, and should be considered with the appropriate discretion.

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If you read your daily newspaper you are probably well aware that it is not exactly targeted for young people. Quickly looking through the sections of the paper, besides the comics and an occasional teen blurb, there really isn’t much that would appeal to teenagers or young people. As a result, teens and other young people are taking to the internet to get their news and stay informed. Paper newspapers are getting more and more irrelevant for young individuals.

Consider the major sections of the newspaper. You will find, amongst others, Homes, Working, Cars, Wine and Fine Dining, Travel and Money. Now, honestly, most young people could care less about these things. In contrast, the topics available on the internet are much are varied and are not as static. Individuals can find up-to-the minute news. Consequently, traditional newspapers have become out-of-date for the younger generations and the internet has become their primary source of news.

Advertising is a large part of why certain sections are included in the newspapers. Newspapers require advertising to survive and the above sections provide the most revenue. While newspaper sales continue to be fairly strong, if newspaper executives don’t find a way to connect with younger readers, then the long term sustainability of the business may be in jeopardy.

Many young people are authoring blogs, websites and Myspace pages. This allows them to express themselves, engage in self reflection, self-actualization and realization. It also gives them the chance to express some creativity and interact with other teens.

However, the internet can also be a dangerous place. There are adult predators and teen bullies. Young people can also be their own worst enemies and discuss behaviors that are dangerous to themselves such as suicide, eating disorders and cutting. To help protect your teen or child while on the internet, it is important to take certain actions.

Keep track of what your teen or child is doing on the internet. Consider some sort of software that records what sites are visited. You can also check your computer’s history, although teens are savvy enough to simply erase it. Also, put the computer in a family area that is well trafficked. This will discourage your teen from engaging in risky and inappropriate behavior online.

I know that there has been a big deal made about teen privacy. But I’m sure that many parents of teens that have ended up dead or injured (whether physically or emotionally) wished they had been a little more involved and nosey. It is better to be proactive and little overbearing then to be sad and mourning after your teen has managed to get themselves into trouble that you nor them can handle

Most parents absolutely abhor the idea of having to talk to their children about sex. It can be really uncomfortable for both the parent and the child. However, it is a conversation that must be had. Actually, it will be more then one conversation but instead, an ongoing dialogue. Parents will have to continually speak on the subject even when it is difficult. Some common questions that parents have concerning speaking to their children about sex are:

When should I first broach the subject?: This is a difficult question. Children are having sex and discussing it with other kids earlier then ever. In fact, some kids are reporting their first experiences with sex as early as 10 years old. This means that you should be prepared to at least cover the basics in adolescence even before they become teenagers. Make sure that the conversation is age appropriate and that it matches your child’s maturity level.

How do I bring up the topic?: This will differ for everyone. You may want to announce to your child that you want to talk about boys and girls and their relationships with each other. Alternatively, you may want to take the opportunity to talk about sex while you and your child are watching a movie that broaches the subject.

Shouldn’t they be learning this stuff in school?: Some schools have sex-ed programs, but children and teens should learn about sex at home. They shouldn’t have to wait until it is taught in school. It is your responsibility as a parent to get them ready for life and to infuse your values into their lives, including those that have to do with sex.
What if my child doesn’t want to talk about sex?: Kids are not going to want to talk to their parents about sex. However, it is your responsibility as the adult to talk about uncomfortable topics that need to be discussed even if neither or you want to do it.

Should I tell them about my sexual experiences?: If it makes sense to do so, you may want to share some of your own sexual experiences. Of course not in a way that boasts of sexual conquests but in a way that might teach them a lesson. For example, you may want to encourage waiting to have sex until the right time, by telling them about how you wished you would have put off sex until a more appropriate time.

With military recruiters desperate for new recruits, they are turning to our high schools to try to convince children below the legal age limit to enlist. The deferred enlisting program is aimed to have high schoolers to join the military before they turn 18. This program allows them to go to basic training between their junior and senior years of high school. They then will go straight into the military after graduation. Some people have a problem with this.

Individuals at NotSafeForKids.com believe that the military is targeting children too young to make informed decisions about their futures. They believe that kids which are too young to marry, drink or vote, do not have the capacity to yet determine if they want to spend their immediate lives after high school, defending our country in dangerous parts of the world. To protect children, NotSafeForKids.com suggests that parents get involved and teach their kids how to avoid signing their lives away. The advice they give is to not sign anything no matter the pressure from military recruiters.

Whether a parent agrees to let their child sign up for deferred enlisting is up to that individual parent. It is important to remember that teenagers frequently change their minds. While one year they may want to be a doctor, the next year they may want to be a professional athlete. The beauty of being a kid is that they can change their minds. However, if you allow them to enlist in the army, there is absolutely no opportunity for them to change their mind. They are bound by duty. It is best not to allow them to put themselves in this situation. Instead, insist that they wait until they graduate and have a better idea of what they want to do with lives. After this point, they can sign up for whatever they want. There is really no need to sign up when they are 16 or 17. The military recruits will still be there waiting long after they come of age.

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A recent study has found that young people do not read traditional newspapers. Instead, they only scan the headlines. Instead, they are more likely to and turn to online news outlets. Traditional, offline newspapers have been struggling every since the internet has grown in popularity. Advertising revenue has been on the decline every since.

With younger people not finding much use for hard copy newspapers, the future seems bleak. Newspapers will have to find ways to engage the youth if they want to survive. Many newspapers have already gone online to try to stay relevant. However, national news carriers such as CNN and various social networking sites are getting the bulk of online news traffic.

Online news outlets are able to update the news as soon as it happens. This gives them a huge advantage over offline papers that send out information only one time a day. However, there is some real merit to local, offline newspapers. They have a lot of good information and a lot can be learned from them especially about what is going on in one’s particular city. Parents who want to encourage their teens to read the regular newspaper more, may want to assign their children a weekly newspaper report. This forces kids to read and learn about what is going on in their city or state. Many papers often have a money section. This is a great place for kids to pick up money management skills, skills that will come in handy for them as they get older.
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